The reborn dad is hard to be

Chapter 26 The Way of Reading

Take advantage of your child's curiosity. ——Li Zifei

Qiu Songhai and Qi Minghao have been entangled recently. Originally, the two of them belonged to the type where the king does not see the king, but just because Li Zifei cooperated with Qiu Songhai, and then Qi Minghao became Qiu Songhai's partner, which is fine, but this Li Zifei Flying a jerk actually left the company alone and spent all day in the Sunshine Kindergarten, which turned into a scene where Qi Minghao and Qiu Songhai met and talked.

"I didn't expect you, a gangster, to want to step into the real estate industry. Could it be for money laundering?" Qi Minghao drank the free tea provided by the hotel, but didn't order food.

Qiu Songhai smiled, poured himself some tea, went straight to the waiter, ordered fast food for one person, and didn't care about Qi Minghao at all.

"Anyway, I'm still a businessman, what about you, Qi Da Detective?"

Qi Minghao was annoyed. Although he said he would quit the criminal police, he still had a public job. Civil servants are not allowed to work part-time outside, let alone someone else's manager?

Seeing Qiu Songhai's fast food served, Qi Minghao became even more angry.

"Huh? You two actually eat together? You have a good relationship!"

Qiu Songhai and Qi Minghao were taken aback at the same time, and turned their heads to see that it was Li Zifei who made people hate him so much.

Qi Minghao's head is full of black lines, which pair of your eyes saw the two of us eating together!

Li Zifei waved his hand to ask a middle-aged woman behind him to find a place to sit first, then he pulled away the stool next to Qiu Songhai and Qi Minghao and sat down, and said with a smile: "I wanted to find time to call you together Let's have a meal, after all, we need to meet frequently for cooperation in the future, and it won't work if you always fight against each other. I didn't expect you two to get better, so I feel relieved!"

"Who is dating him!" The two pointed at each other at the same time and retorted.

"Hehe," Li Zifei smiled, stood up, with an expression of "I understand", "You guys talk, I still have something to do, I'll contact you when I have time." After speaking, he hurried away, just turned around Afterwards, he shook his head a little funny, and muttered, "What's the deal with this relationship? Happy friends?"

"Who is happy with him!"

Obviously, the two of them heard Li Zifei's words at the same time.

Li Zifei spread his hands and found the middle-aged woman.

This middle-aged woman is Wei Ying, 42 years old. She used to work as a childcare worker in a kindergarten. She originally planned to open a small kindergarten by herself, but she had been working as a childcare worker for five months. She couldn't believe what he saw. In the end, the only remaining ideal was also shattered. When she learned about this Sunshine Kindergarten through her friends, she had the idea of ​​working here. When she came, she happened to meet Li Zifei, and Li Zifei was very concerned about her in the past. Those five months were very curious, so they invited her to have a meal and talk in detail.

"Really, I can't believe it. Those little girls abused their children so blatantly. Many parents wanted their children to receive special care and gave them a lot of money, but they still abused them and taught me how to How to pinch children so that no one can see them, how to punish children who don't take a nap, how to make them stand still, I have seen them bully a dull little boy, let him stand outside all afternoon, He peed his pants and didn't let him move, and even pinched his neck and said he was disobedient. I once warned them that their behavior would hurt their conscience and they would have retribution, but those little girls actually told me that if I was there After a while, I will be like them. I was really too scared, so I resigned."

Wei Ying's words made Li Zifei feel creepy. A psychologist once said that children are the best at self-healing. They will naturally forget the bad things for themselves and remember the good things for them. This will also cast a shadow on the little mind.

Li Zifei even wondered if his child became like that in his previous life because he was abused by a kindergarten teacher when he was a child?

(It's true, I was stabbed by a kindergarten teacher with a sweater needle when I was a child, and then I went home and told my mother, and my mother would not let me go to kindergarten.)

"Then won't these children go home and tell their parents?" Li Zifei didn't understand.

Wei Ying sighed, and said, "It's not that simple, they've thought of all of this. They would call a child to their eyes, pinch him first, and then ask them, 'Did the teacher hit you?' The child nodded, and the teacher continued. Pinch, and then ask until the child shakes his head and says 'no hit.'. When parents send their child to kindergarten, the teacher greets them with a smile on their face. Who would have thought that they would abuse the child? They thought the child was crying and making noise. Kindergarten is because the child is not sensible, so I didn’t see a parent who came to inquire in private. After reading this, I was worried whether my child had been abused in the kindergarten. When I asked her, she always said no. I don’t know if it’s true or not, hey!”

Li Zifei was furious. He never thought that such a thing could happen in a small kindergarten.

It's dark under the lights, it's dark under the lights!People really only see what they think they see.

But can Li Zifei change anything?cannot.Even if he is born again, he is still just a small townsman fighting for himself. This is not ancient times. You can become a civil servant if you cut off a little JJ, and you can become a local emperor by recruiting soldiers. The only thing he can do now is to manage Take good care of your own sunshine kindergarten, and let his educational thoughts flow into the sea from this little lake.

I chatted with Wei Ying for a few more words, but I felt that this eldest sister was very maternal and patient, and she was very kind just from the fact that she didn't get along with others.So I asked her to come to Sunshine Kindergarten on Sunday afternoon to listen to a class for parents to see if she could adapt to the teaching philosophy here, and if she could, she would come to work.

Sunshine Kindergarten at 1:30pm on Sunday.

Seeing the gathering of Chinese and foreign parents, Li Zifei felt a little bit amused.

The children have long been placed in a special play area that is only open to parents when they have classes on Sundays, so that on Sundays, the children will scramble to come and play.

"In the last class, we talked about how to train children to eat regularly and quantitatively by themselves. Parents who didn't show up went to Zhao Na to get a copy of the handout after class. In this class, we will talk about how to let children take the initiative to read." After speaking, Li Zifei spread his hands Pointing to Zhao Na in front of the blackboard.

Zhao Na nodded, and then began to talk: "I think all mothers and fathers are very distressed. Why does my child not like to read books? No matter how many picture books he buys, he can't read them anymore. He always runs away after reading for a while." Go to play, even if the parents hold him and tell him, he will not listen to it honestly. In fact, you should understand that children are now in the process of brain cognition of the whole world, they are curious about everything, It’s not their fault that they are constantly attracted by other things. And we adults can’t impose it on them with adult psychology. What we can do is to make better use of this curiosity and let them learn independently .”

As Zhao Na spoke, she pointed to a young boy in denim among the children in the play area. It was none other than Li Tiansheng.

"Let's take Li Tiansheng as an example. Oh, this is our principal's second son. Don't think that the principal is so powerful. He must take good care of his children. Ou Yangguang was so noisy that he couldn't sleep well for several days, and there was no quiet time except for eating. In the end, the principal came up with this method, so that Tiansheng was able to take the initiative to read books, and he was very quiet while reading. .”

All the parents looked at Li Zifei curiously, Li Zifei was embarrassed, this Zhao Na said what he was doing, just say what he should say.

Looking at Li Zifei's embarrassment in a funny way, Zhao Na never imagined that this manager of a sales agency company and the principal of a kindergarten is only one year younger than herself, so Zhao Na, who is free, likes to make fun of him. It is absolutely impossible to put it on the Chinese.

"At the beginning, Tiansheng couldn't read any books, even his favorite dinosaur story, and he had never finished a single one. So Ou Yangguang found a long fairy tale and insisted on telling it to Li Tiansheng. , and told him to only talk for 5 minutes. Tiansheng is curious about new things, and as soon as he heard a story, he agreed immediately, but he couldn't sit still after listening to it for 3 minutes, and insisted on going out to play. Ou Yangguang was not angry, just patient He told him that one must be trustworthy in life, and he must speak for 5 minutes if he agreed to speak for 5 minutes, so he forced Tiansheng to listen for another two minutes. When the 5 minutes were up, no matter where he talked, he stopped immediately and asked him to go out to play. Then I talked to him for 5 minutes every day, and every time I followed the previous one. A few days ago, Tiansheng could only hear it for 3 minutes, and then he could hear it for 5 minutes. Sunshine continued to talk, but Ou Yangguang said that people should be trustworthy, and five points are five points for what they say, and they don’t talk about anything. In this way, Tiansheng can only listen for 5 minutes a day, and gradually he is not satisfied. , and at this time, Ou Yangguang happened to take out the picture book of this fairy tale and put it in the place where the children usually play. Tiansheng naturally ran over to read it himself, because he was curious about the ending of the story. Repeated this several times Tiansheng has developed a good habit of reading books on his own initiative."

After Zhao Na finished speaking, there was a burst of whispering, Chinese and foreign mothers all showed expressions of enlightenment at the same time, and no one thought that there was such a method.

Seeing that Zhao Na finished speaking, Li Zifei stood up and said, "The reason why I want to offer this parent education course is because no matter how long a child stays in school, the family is always the earliest school for children, and parents are their best. The first teacher. A child's time in school is limited after all, I just hope that the school and the family can unify the way of education, so that the education of the child can be implemented."

Seeing the adoring eyes of the parents, Li Zifei was embarrassed. This was seen on a person's blog when he was trying to make up for his children in his previous life.

"In addition, parents, please read the pamphlet carefully when you go back every day. It records what the children do every day, what is happy and unhappy, and what things need you to read. Praise. Here I would like to say that the child Barbara told me that her father is an incompetent father who praised her every day, "Baby, you are awesome!", Barbara told me that she was very troubled, But I don't know how to talk to my father, so I criticize here."

Li Zifei looked at Barbara's father with a smile while talking. Her father definitely has a serious love interest. He wished to hold Barbara in his hands every day, but love is love, and the way of love is wrong. , so Barbara learned to be melancholy at a young age.

Hearing that he was talking about him, Barbara's father scratched his head in embarrassment, and Barbara's mother laughed at him shamelessly.

"Actually, we all know that you love your daughter very much. Of course, Barbara is very cute and smart, but as a parent, you must remember that you want to praise your child. We understand, but please don't just praise him for being great. To say that a specific aspect is great. For example, if your child shows you a painting, you should not just say, "Baby, you draw really well!" Maybe the child will be very happy once or twice, but after a long time, They'll think you didn't mean it and you're just putting it off. Be specific when you compliment him, like 'Baby, you drew the sky beautifully!' 'Oh, I love that dog you drew.'' Oh my God, your imagination is so rich, this alien is so vivid.' Wait. Remember that children's hearts are very sensitive. How about Jack, I don't want to see Barbara's face again He said to me melancholy, 'Why is it so difficult to love someone!'."

Everyone roared with laughter, and the class ended amidst the laughter of the parents.

Wei Ying looked at this young man in admiration, she couldn't imagine how he did it.